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Meeting Students Where They Are
Why Proactive Support Benefit Every Learner In a recent professional development session I facilitated with a school in Fall River, Massachusetts, a really important question came up, one that tends to surface in almost every training when we talk about classroom behavior and student engagement. We were discussing behavioral strategies to support student learning while also preventing interfering behavior. The conversation centered around proactive planning, structure, and ho
11 hours ago


The Power of Pause
How often do you say yes before you’ve even had a chance to think about it? I recently had a conversation with my wise colleague, Dr. Lina Slim, that really stuck with me. She shared a piece of advice she’s learned over time: pause before saying yes. It sounds simple, but it’s not always easy. Even when you’re overworked, overbooked, and stretched thin, invitations to participate in interesting projects, support meaningful causes, and attend fun social gatherings are still en
Mar 30


The Powerful Impact of Paying Attention
One of the most common and powerful functions of behavior is attention. As adults, we often think of attention-seeking behavior as something children do. But the truth is, we all seek attention. We all want to feel seen, heard, and acknowledged. And often, attention becomes most valuable when it feels limited or diverted. I remember when my children were younger. The moment I got on the phone, it was immediate: “Mom.” “Mom.” “Mom, mom, mom…” It didn’t matter that I had been a
Mar 4


Parenting Is a Superhero Story (Even on the Hard Days)
Most parents don’t imagine their journey will include panic attacks, chronic stomachaches, school refusal, meltdowns, concussions, family illness, grief, and the lingering effects of a global pandemic. And yet for so many families, this is the reality. Add in sports disappointments, friendship struggles, learning challenges, and the daily unpredictability of growing brains and bodies, and it can feel like you are constantly in crisis-management mode. This is why so many of us
Feb 3


Tips for School-Based Consultation: Include Paraprofessionals & Collect Meaningful Data
Effective school consulting is about more than strategies and systems. It's about people. Two essential practices that guide my work are including paraprofessionals throughout the treatment process and collecting meaningful, feasible data. When we center both, we create supports that are compassionate, practical, and impactful for students and the teams who serve them. Consulting Tip #1: Include Paraprofessionals Paraprofessionals spend their days alongside students. They are
Jan 18


Unlocking Your Professional Superpowers
I had the incredible opportunity to speak about identifying and strengthening our professional superpowers. These are the natural and learned abilities that allow us to reach the peak of our potential- our unique strengths that, when refined, can make a meaningful difference in how we support students, par ents, and colleagues. What Are Superpowers? In this context, superpowers are the behaviors, skills, and strengths that go beyond the ordinary. They’re the abilities that al
Dec 19, 2025


Giving Directions So Your Kids Listen
Giving Directions So Your Kids Listen
Aug 12, 2025
Helping Our Children Do Hard Things
One of the most important things we can do for our children is to give them the gift of our confidence in them. Kids need to know that we...
Jul 29, 2024


School Consulting Tip - Include Paraprofessionals Throughout the Consultation Process
Paraprofessionals spend all day with students. They connect with them when they are doing well and support them when they are having...
Jan 17, 2024
Guide for Teaching Students with Anxiety
I came across this quick guide for teaching students with anxiety disorders. In the guide, anxiety disorders are explained as they...
Jul 19, 2023


Flowing Through Tantrums
I hope these tips help you flow through your child’s tantrums in a responsive, minimally emotional way that leads to shorter, less...
Jun 6, 2023


Try First, Then Ask for Help
It is important that children learn to be independent AND ask for help when they need it. Both skills are necessary for children to...
Jun 6, 2023


Teaching Your Child To Be Polite
It is so important that we teach our children to be polite when the are little and require polite behavior throughout their lives. Here...
Jun 6, 2023


Teaching Your Child Empathy & Compassion
Empathy and compassion are integral for children to learn early on in life as these skills are what makes us good people. Here are some...
Jun 6, 2023


5 Parenting Mantras
Parenting Mantras 3 min Video: Parenting Mantras Video
Jan 12, 2023


Getting Your Child to Respond to Their Name
Getting Your Child to Respond to Their Name 2 min Video: Getting Your Child To Respond to Their Name
Jan 12, 2023


Reinforcing the Good; Ignoring the Not So Good Parenting Tip
Reinforcing the Good; Ignoring the Not So Good Parenting Tip
Jan 12, 2023
Parent-Friendly Tips & Tools for Remote Learning
Initially published by the Public Schools of Brookline. Tip #1 - Set-up a consistent workspace for your student. Reduce distractions as...
Sep 15, 2020
How Do You Minimize Everyday Chaos in a COVID-19 World?
Originally posted on Beyond Booksmart Blog: https://www.beyondbooksmart.com/executive-functioning-strategies-blog/how-establishing-routin...
Aug 4, 2020
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